The day that I decided my time in the Army was done, my husband — at the time, he was the fiance no one knew about — told me that things were going to be hard. I honestly thought he was joking. I mean what could be so hard about being a veteran and a wife to an active duty sailor. I wish, boy oh boy do I wish, I knew then what I know now. Would it have completely changed whether or not I married the love of my life? No, probably not, but it would have made a...